Upset

Thought very long before I wrote this post. Especially for the title. Lastly, I decided to pen "Upset".

Was indeed rather upset with a friend. We used to be so close. We used to hang out so often. But most of the time the other 3 of us always have to give in to him all the time. When he needed help financially we helped him buy his old toys he wanted to sell off. We went for cheap food as we knew he needed to scrimp. But to me somehow he always take advantage of our "kindness". He have to choose the things he want to eat and places he want to go. And most of the time, in fact every time we have to go with his flow. Until the last time when we are supposed to meet and I decided not to go.

This decision was just so firm on my end as I feel that I had enough. Really enough of his nonsense. He claimed to be tight financially but his girlfriend likes to binge on Groupon and deals.com, traveling frequently. We have to resort to his plight and go for hawker food. We suggested a place he did not want and requested for us to go a place far from the place we stay. He is the troublesome one and yet he could not come up with a suggestion every time. In the end, a kind soul have to sort this issue by getting his family car to drive all of us to the hawker centre. This difficult person has a car co-shared with his girlfriend. But he could not drive it out despite his "need" and "desire" to be difficult every now and then. And he praised the kind soul for always making things to work. Taking advantage? To me this is definitely a YES!

Call us brothers then why always make things difficult? Why I decided not to go? I am definitely pissed off. I am not so nice as to every time putting his needs before others. Why should I meet up and yet feel unhappy most of the time? I cannot please everyone. Neither can I always allow my other brothers to have to give in to his shit all the time. Let me share 2 more instances below.

He claimed he needed money and I helped by buying his stupid toy. And he got to contact me 1 month later and tell me to exchange what I bought from him to another because he can fetch a higher price for the first one he sold me. Still? I obliged to his needs.

There was once we planned for a meet up and he knew I was working. But he likes to play mahjong and decided to play his stupid mahjong past the time we were supposed to meet. And he asked me to go home to wait for him and the rest to finish his game and then he will come to my place for another round. This incident saw me blowing of my top at him. I simply hate people like that. Playing me out at the very last minute without even informing me.

Given so much instances, I really think I had enough. In fact, disappointed and upset that friends of 6 years ended up as such today. It's a pity and heart wrenching that we so called brothers ended up this way today. Upset is the only word I can use to last pen down on this post.