Upset

Thought very long before I wrote this post. Especially for the title. Lastly, I decided to pen "Upset".

Was indeed rather upset with a friend. We used to be so close. We used to hang out so often. But most of the time the other 3 of us always have to give in to him all the time. When he needed help financially we helped him buy his old toys he wanted to sell off. We went for cheap food as we knew he needed to scrimp. But to me somehow he always take advantage of our "kindness". He have to choose the things he want to eat and places he want to go. And most of the time, in fact every time we have to go with his flow. Until the last time when we are supposed to meet and I decided not to go.

This decision was just so firm on my end as I feel that I had enough. Really enough of his nonsense. He claimed to be tight financially but his girlfriend likes to binge on Groupon and deals.com, traveling frequently. We have to resort to his plight and go for hawker food. We suggested a place he did not want and requested for us to go a place far from the place we stay. He is the troublesome one and yet he could not come up with a suggestion every time. In the end, a kind soul have to sort this issue by getting his family car to drive all of us to the hawker centre. This difficult person has a car co-shared with his girlfriend. But he could not drive it out despite his "need" and "desire" to be difficult every now and then. And he praised the kind soul for always making things to work. Taking advantage? To me this is definitely a YES!

Call us brothers then why always make things difficult? Why I decided not to go? I am definitely pissed off. I am not so nice as to every time putting his needs before others. Why should I meet up and yet feel unhappy most of the time? I cannot please everyone. Neither can I always allow my other brothers to have to give in to his shit all the time. Let me share 2 more instances below.

He claimed he needed money and I helped by buying his stupid toy. And he got to contact me 1 month later and tell me to exchange what I bought from him to another because he can fetch a higher price for the first one he sold me. Still? I obliged to his needs.

There was once we planned for a meet up and he knew I was working. But he likes to play mahjong and decided to play his stupid mahjong past the time we were supposed to meet. And he asked me to go home to wait for him and the rest to finish his game and then he will come to my place for another round. This incident saw me blowing of my top at him. I simply hate people like that. Playing me out at the very last minute without even informing me.

Given so much instances, I really think I had enough. In fact, disappointed and upset that friends of 6 years ended up as such today. It's a pity and heart wrenching that we so called brothers ended up this way today. Upset is the only word I can use to last pen down on this post.

Babies Shower

Last Saturday was a fun filled day for me with 2 little cute boys Javier & Kayden. They are just so innocent, cute and fun to play with. Haha..!!!

I want my own child too!! LOLZ!

Patience

I need more patience. Work have been rather not smooth with minor hiccups here and there for the past few days. Not very satisfied and happy with things at work. Probably I need more patience.

I'm seeking things to be perfect. How? That's just me. Good and both bad.

New Look

I'm done with the new look of this blog. I hope my readers like it too. Will continue to make it even better. 

Work In Progress...

 Please be patient while minor works are in progress. Sorry for the mess. I am in the midst of re-constructing the whole layout to make it better. Thank you!

Inspiration

Sometimes it is really an eye opener to meet people with inspirations. Somehow or rather talking to them really inspires me. I met Adam the 1 arm runner yesterday and was really inspired by how determined he is to fulfill his dreams and to raise charity despite being a disabled. I am engaged with our conversation and have really learnt loads from him during that mere half hour.

I learnt that I when you have a purpose, stay determined and work towards it. The journey might be long and tedious but focusing on the goal will definitely bring you to where you want to be and to achieve your aim. Life is short and we must really make the best out of it. At least, at the end of the day we live with no regrets.

I have a big project and I have my directions planned. I will do my best to make it happen. I am inspired by Adam and I will work hard to do even better.

Support Adam, the one arm runner (http://1armrunner.blogspot.sg/). I wish you all the best in your endeavours and may our first collaboration be a success.

Adaptation

Adaptation.

In life wherever we go, we adapt. It is just how much we adapt and how much we adjust to an environment or the changing environment. When we adapt well, we get into the situation faster and feels more comfortable too.

So far I believe I have been adapting to the bits and pieces of my life well. Despite going through may changes, in the least I can say so far I am rather comfortable with the life I am leading. I am comfortable and happy at work. At least for this 2 points I can say I am adapting rather well?

Work has been engaging so far. There are so many things to look forward to. It is like being involved in such a big project is just so exciting. I found a new motivation in this position and am determined to do it well. For now I actually find that regular working hours has resulted to also a healthier me. I have gotten used to a lot of things and most importantly, I like what I am doing too.

I hope my strong adaptability will continue to stay within me and allow me to adapt even better and do even more better.

With a purpose and determination. Whatever the outcome, just do it.

Bad Haircut

It was a haircut that went all wrong. The moment I was assigned the shampoo girl to cut my hair I felt not right. There were 3 other hair stylist but they were not assigned. Am I a guinea pig?

When she cut her fingers I felt even more uneasy. Then she started to shave my sides and then I saw the hole on my left. I kept quiet. Then she shaved my right and then it was all uneven. I told her it looks not right. She continued to shave my right side. Still it looks all wrongt. I am ready fuming as I look real cartoon. I stopped her and asked for the salon manager. She realised the mistake and took over. Still it ended up with my left side too thin and short till can see my scalp and my right side thicker. 

I feel that it is not right to let an inexperience staff to do the cutting and snipping. Moreover, I am their loyal customer for 8 years. Instead, today I am their guinea pig. Still I was charged the full hair cut cost. They did not even apologised. This shall be my last time patronising. Never will I step in again.

I know we need to give newbies a chance but not this way. They need to ensure that newbies are ready before they take on the role. I am ready good enough not to have raised my voice. Given my character I would but I controlled. 

I ended up with no choice but to go Kimage at J8 to seek help and was later adviced by the stylist to style it this way for the time being till my hair grows longer. I was even ready to pay additional $35 for a trim and hairwash but i was instead adviced and had my hair styled without paying a single cent. 

I have been hearing good reviews on Kimage and my cousin have always been patronising Kimage too. I shall pay that few dollars more for Kimage next month. I hope I don't look too weird for now. SIGH!

Fun Filled Saturday at MBS, Todai for Efi's B'day

It was a fun filled Saturday with my great bunch of people!!

Favourite shoes with my CK double layer shirt! 

Bored while waiting for the 'late-comers'.

"Complimentary" tix to Sky Park! 

Singapore does have nice scenery. The weather was just nice too!

Love this pic! We were lucky enough to get a clear view too.

TA~DAH!!!! Great buffet spread at Todai! The food was good!!!! YUMZ!!

The best was their seafood!! OMG!!!!!

It was suppose to be chocolate ice cream. But it turned out to look like.... EPIC TTM!!! LMAO!

The 5 ladies!!

Like this pic!! The B'day gal was damn funny!

This is nice too!!

Cam whoring still in progress while the drivers claim their free parking...

And then.. we started to get naughty and bullied Ivan..... HAHAHAHA!!!

It was a great day and HAPPY BIRTHDAY EFI!!!!

9 years of friendship and still counting on.... =)